Muitos casais enfrentam dificuldade em estabelecer um projeto comum de casal e uma conjugalidade propriamente dita. Por meio das formulações teóricas de René Kaës, busca-se um entendimento da trama que constitui o estofo do laço conjugal. It is not possible either to predict how long marital bonds last, seeing that we live in a society where many love ties have a more fluid and passing nature. Many couples have difficulty in establishing not only a common project as a couple but also conjugality itself. The purpose of this study is to reflect upon the constitution of marital bonds. Part of a study on the influence of the psychic transmission in the constitution of marital bonds is shown in order to illustrate the connection between transubjectivity and intersubjectivity.